Book of Memories for Stanley Clifford Howard Irvine

Condolence From Jan

Tue, 18 Sep 2012 17:25:47 EDT

To my brother: " His life earnest, his actions kind A willing hand, and active mind Anxious to please, loath to offend A loving brother, a faithful friend" Rest in Peace

Condolence From Heather (McCrae) & Brad Richardson

Tue, 18 Sep 2012 14:48:57 EDT

We were so sorry to hear of Stan's passing. He was a wonderful and patient man - especially for new curlers like us. We will remember his graciousness and pride in his family.

Condolence From Sharon Kelly

Mon, 17 Sep 2012 12:40:33 EDT

Greg & Nancy, Jo-Anne & Ed, I am so sorry for your loss of Uncle Stan. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Sending hugs your way !

Story shared: My Dad

Sun, 16 Sep 2012 08:38:12 EDT

It is difficult to put into words the relationship of a parent and child. It is a relationship that changes and grows over time. Head chef; first-on-the-scene paramedic; coach; cheerleader; chauffeur; bank manager; mentor; teacher; friend. My dad was all of these things and more. Growing up my dad coached many of our teams. He was an athlete and it was important that his kids learn the skills, confidence and sportsmanship that come with being part of a team. He took great pride in all of our athletic abilities. Baseball and hockey later turned into rugby and golf. My dad enjoyed watching Bill play rugby and attending the Lindsay Rugby Football Club’s home and away games. He loved to play golf and he and Allen spent a great deal of time on the golf course. I’m told he was becoming quite the lawn bowler lately and he and my mom both curled. Our house was always grand central station when we were kids and later as teenagers. Friends were always coming and going and my parents felt that based on the grocery bill, they must be feeding the whole neighbourhood. Everyone was always welcome and the front door was (and still is) never locked. There were many sleepovers, intentional and otherwise, and my dad never batted an eye. I think he loved having a house full of people and friends seemed to gravitate here. My dad was generous to a fault, and would give you the shirt off his back. My cousin Laurie once told me that she was stuck out west, had no money and needed to come home. My dad answered her call and told her to get on a plane and he would take care of it. My dad would always ask - did we need $20.00? We never paid for a meal when my dad was out with us. He covered many a round at The Grand and door-to-door canvassers did well to come by when he was home. It was very important to my dad to be a good provider. He worked hard, and often drove long hours to and from work. In the recession of the 1990s, when the construction sector had suffered major job losses, my dad too was without work. I remember he took a job driving a taxi in Lindsay, often into the wee hours of the morning. As you can imagine, driving a cab in Lindsay wasn’t the most lucrative of positions and the fares could be few and far between, but he did it anyway. It was important to him to provide whatever financial support he could to his family. Not many things brought more joy to my dad than seeing his grandchildren. We would try to visit every couple of months and spoke often on speakerphone. My dad would say, “Hiiiiiiii Lucas, it’s Poppa Stan. I have Milo and Max here and they say hello.” This would be followed by, “Hiiiiiii Baby Emily.” Liam always knew that Poppa Stan was good for a trip to Dairy Queen and a handful of change for his piggy bank. I have learned that it’s difficult to fully understand the depth of love your parent has for you until you have a child of your own. That, Stand in Front of a Bus, Go to the Ends of the Earth, Can’t Put Into Words kind of love. There is never enough time but I am grateful for the time we had. My dad watched us all graduate from college or university, walked me down the aisle and was around for the birth of his grandbabies. There is a lot to be thankful for. My dad lived a good life, and he had his house in order. We had said what needed to be said, and we loved one eachother and told one another often. I miss you dad, but I know we will see eachother again. Until then, I love you too.

Condolence From Steve & Rose O'Neill

Sat, 15 Sep 2012 11:43:15 EDT

Our sincere sympathy to all of the family. Steve enjoyed working with Stan for many years.

Condolence From Karen Round

Sat, 15 Sep 2012 10:42:14 EDT

Dear Grace and Family, Sincere condolences on the passing of Stanley. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Condolence From Denise & Jim Ralph

Sat, 15 Sep 2012 09:27:21 EDT

Dear Grace;.....so sorry to hear of Stan's passing. Please know we'll keep you in our hearts and prayers

Condolence From Lesley & Desi Specht

Fri, 14 Sep 2012 21:31:32 EDT

Dear Grace & Family. Desi and I were shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Stanley. Our deepest condolences to you and your family. We will truly miss his gracious nature. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.

Story shared: Birthday Call Ritual

Fri, 14 Sep 2012 19:44:14 EDT

I answered the phone and on the other end was my brother Stan. He wanted to wish me a Happy Birthday. This was a ritual, usually a week late. He’d start with, “So how old are you now, 55”? I would giggle and say YES 55 and thanked him for his lapse in memory or good judgement. I, like most women, don’t like being reminded that they’re another year older but I’m going to miss that call next year when I would probably be “55” again. Thanks for your creative math skills, intentional or not… Love Sue

Condolence From Donna and Dave Morton

Fri, 14 Sep 2012 15:34:05 EDT

Dear Amazing. We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your hubby, Stanley. Please know that you and your family, are in our hearts and prayers through this tough time. Much love to all.

Condolence From Judge George Inrig

Fri, 14 Sep 2012 14:25:42 EDT

I am shocked and sorry to hear of the death of Stan,32*. I extend my sympathy to Grace, and condolences to all of the family. He was a good Mason. George Inrig, 33*.

Condolence From Ron and Kathy Lloyd

Fri, 14 Sep 2012 11:16:59 EDT

Grace, Samantha, Bill and Allen. Our thoughts are with you at this time. We will always treasure the memories of that summer at the lake. There was always much laughter when Stan was around. He will truly be missed.

Photo shared: Father & son with Irvine tartan.JPG

Fri, 14 Sep 2012 10:07:15 EDT

Stan with his father Sam wearing the Irvine tartan

Condolence From Rick & Sue Carnell

Thu, 13 Sep 2012 22:07:35 EDT

Grace & family, we share your sorrow. Too many memories & will share these with you at the service. Our sincere condolences.

Condolence From Toronto District School Board

Thu, 13 Sep 2012 22:05:44 EDT

Once again, please accept our condolences for your loss. Everyone here who knew your father thought very highly of him and enjoyed working with him. We are all very sorry that he didn’t get to enjoy more of the retirement life. All our best to you and your family.

Story shared: hockey

Thu, 13 Sep 2012 08:52:48 EDT

We were playing hockey in a tournament over in Havelock and Stan was the driver for the trip for he and I. Following the final game I suggested an alternative way home that we could enjoy by taking our time and have some "ginger ales" on route. We poked along the back roads not encountering any traffic and just sharing stories and listening to some tunes. It was the "long way home" but he would often say that that trip home was one of his favorite times-- for sure it was one of mine. Great fun, great stories and a few gingers--can't do that now--

Condolence From Pat and Carol Murdock

Thu, 13 Sep 2012 08:42:32 EDT

Grace, Sam, Allan and Bill, Please accept our condolences at this time. Time and life moves people around and we wish we could have spent more time together. I will miss Stan as he was a great friend and a good listener. He had a way to help one through a difficult time by sharing a story of his own that put things into perspective.He will be missed.

Photo shared: irvine_stanley_web.jpg

Wed, 12 Sep 2012 19:22:43 EDT